Dom's Guide To BDSM Vol. 1: 49 Must-Know Tips On How To Be The Perfect Dom/Master Your Submissive Will Truly Respect & Admire (Guide to Healthy BDSM)
<p><b>Much of what we've “heard" about BDSM and the lifestyle is wrong.</b> Our opinions on this lifestyle and art form are oftentimes shaped by other people who have heard something about it and perhaps embellished it to the point of perpetuating myths. <b>The truth is that BDSM is not degrading towards women</b>, and it's also a concept that you will find is not “scary." And even the “pain" that is spoken of is not the type of pain people think it is. </p><p><b>This book is written for Doms/Masters in training.</b> It is written for you, the average guy or gal, who doesn't already have a closet full of leather and whips, and who really has little idea about what BDSM is besides what they've heard about it.</p><p>What you are going to find out, is that <b>the Dom/Master actually has the more complicated role</b>. The master has the task of giving pleasure and discipline to the slave or sub. <b>A great deal of what you do as a Dom will be for the benefit of a sub.</b> You must derive pleasure from giving, have a great desire to please a partner, and not simply take what you want.</p><p>Still interested? Good. Now that we know you're a REAL master in training, one that will <b>respect the rules, respect the slave you have power over, and follow protocol</b>, you can begin your Dom training. Only then can you truly earn the utmost respect and admiration from your sub.</p><p>In Volume 1 of this series we are going to discuss:</p><p> - <b>How to think and act like a Dom</b></p> <p> - What the slave expects from you</p> <p> - <b>What not to do and what instincts you do NOT want to follow</b></p> <p> - Your motivation and your goals</p> <p> - <b>How to find out a sub's taboo</b></p> <p> - How to negotiate, find agreement and ensure that game play is always safe</p> <p> - <b>How to make a slave yearn for you and desire to be controlled by you</b></p> <p> - And much more...</p>